Most of the time, when we humans sit together and chit chat, we tend to find it very easy to complain or criticize. It's very rare that we sit there praising others, especially those we don't like. I think our ego takes up so much of the conversation that we forget to be daringly different, daringly positive, daringly kind and daringly understanding.
It is easy to complain because it makes our ego so happy, especially if we can bring others in on the act. We feed our ego to feel good, but then we don't feel very good at all once the moment passes.
A hero is someone who is daring to live a happy life and who conquers their ego and controls those jealous, insecure or proud emotions that make us do or say things that hurt others. So always check yourself and try, daringly, to stop. It takes a lot of courage to admit we are wrong and that we need to change and improve. It;s okay to make mistakes, but it takes courage to learn from them, to wish to be a better person. With a willingness to improve, you will be walking your path, little by little.
One day, without even noticing, you will become a great and kind person.