Where a woman becomes her own best friend....Life is easier. How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you to.

 

{ Maak tyd vir jouself }

Ons is soms so verlore in alles rondom ons, dat ons heeltemal vergeet om ons kop op te tel en net asem te haal. Dis okey om net te stop soms, en in te neem waarmee ons besig is, te waardeer wat ons het, aandag te gee aan onsself. 

Geniet die proses en moenie waardevolle lesse miskyk nie. Dis in die moeilikste situasies waar jy die beste lesse leer. 
 

{ You Are ....}

                   YOU ARE ... Important, worthy, enough, capable, braver then you think and beautiful 

 

Great things are done by a series of small things brought together

{ Be Thankful }

 

Be thankful for what you have. You'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never...ever have enough.

As you start to walk on the way, the way appears

 

{ Soft Mornings }

 

It's the small habits. How you spend your mornings, how you talk to yourself, what you read, what you watch, who you share your energy with, who has access to you. That will change your life.

{ New Beginnings }

 

I'm on the unpaved road with no clue where it leads, but that's okay. I honestly value who I'm becoming over where I end up. And for the first time in years, I'm smiling at the horizon.

The purpose of our lives is to be happy

 

         

I am going to keep my thinking and my attitude calm and cheerful.

 

 Some people look for a beautiful place. Others make a place beautiful

{ Be Gentle }

Most of the time, when we humans sit together and chit chat, we tend to find it very easy to complain or criticize. It's very rare that we sit there praising others, especially those we don't like. I think our ego takes up so much of the conversation that we forget to be daringly different, daringly positive, daringly kind and daringly understanding.

It is easy to complain because it makes our ego so happy, especially if we can bring others in on the act. We feed our ego to feel good, but then we don't feel very good at all once the moment passes.

A hero is someone who is daring to live a happy life and who conquers their ego and controls those jealous, insecure or proud emotions that make us do or say things that hurt others. So always check yourself and try, daringly, to stop. It takes a lot of courage to admit we are wrong and that we need to change and improve. It;s okay to make mistakes, but it takes courage to learn from them, to wish to be a better person. With a willingness to improve, you will be walking your path, little by little. 

One day, without even noticing, you will become a great and kind person.

{ The Art Of Letting Go }

 

In the end these things matter most: 

How well did you love? 

How fully did you live? 

How deeply did you let go?

{ Self-Reflection }

 

To help reflect on our own selves, it is helpful to think of people in our lives, and to look beyond any labels like 'mother', 'husband' or 'boss'. Allow yourself to see them simply as human beings who also want happiness and don't want any suffering in their lives.

Then reflect on how you would like to be treated by others, and how do you treat the people in your life. Think about love, appreciation, respect, forgiveness, understanding, kindness and compassion. Just like the saying, "It takes two hands to clap", we understand that people tend to treat us with love, kindness, understanding, tolerance and acceptance, if we have given them the same things.

{ Charles Darwin }

 It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.